Friday , the 21st of November

To talk about the weather is a wonderful thing and how the clouds move . I think it always makes us feel something . Today ,it was clear that we hand the season's baton to winter . The clouds came together, froze the sky and birthed snowflakes or small wish catchers from 1pm till 6 pm . The 7pm trees looked magical in silver . The temperature was beginning from 1 and was going as low as -5 . I recommend a long wool coat and enough layers for the men , the fur/faux fur coat for the women ,gingerbread spice mix in your coffee, applying 5 % Urea hand cream , warm gloves, good shoes for grip and fuzzy socks, so you feel comfortable in case the temperature drops even lower, to slip in a welcoming home for a heated mug of apple juice and a slice of banana bread or a dinner plate of bechamel broccoli-penne souffle and watch a romcom named "You've got mail". I  wish you had seen the first snow with someone special or the next time it falls . We expect this on Sunday the 23rd, Tuesday the 25th ,Wednesday the 26th of November and so on . 

Sometimes , it's helpful to meet through internet.

Kathleen and Joe Fox in "You've got Mail" (1998) , revealed them true selves online without pressure. Something , they wouldn't t have done in real life as they saw each other as "enemies". Joe equals the big corporate bookstore and Kathleen , the small independent bookstore. So, online they saw each other beyond conflicts. Their messages showed humour, tenderness, vulnerability and values . They fell for who the other person truly was - not what they looked liked or what job they had (bond based on personality , not looks or status ) , They slowed time , means they grew admiration for each other naturally and steady without the chaos of their real -life misunderstandings. The online connection helped them see deeper layers in each other -layers that they would have missed if they only judged each other based on real life encounters. They realised that the person they admired the most was already in their life.